About Me

Hello everyone.  It's nice to write, read and reply to you. 

Why am I blogging now?  Recent events this summer surrounding my father's death made me lose control of my life.  I actually began to blog in summer of 2010, but gave up or lost interest.

I like to do things that are useful.  So I'm breathing life back into my blog with a plan this time.  I'm hoping to express myself through my blog to help myself heal. 

As well, I do have a bit of life experiences I hope will be useful to my readers.  I hope to help people feel like they are not alone and at the same time I will feel the same.  I think I will need you far more than you will need me. 

I'm a wife, mother, step-mother, Grammy and a professional.  I'm open minded, enjoy some dark humour, and once had a regular life.  So I made it seem.  I didn't realize what an Oscar winning role I've played all this time.  I'm working on my self-care presently and I'm being patient with progressing from victim to survivor and thriver. 

I grew up in a dysfunctional family, drenched in incest and molestation.  A school life of bullies.  A mother who was non-existent, except physically. 
A million realities are in my vault of my mind's closet.  I call my blog this because my mind is just like a closet; parts are messy, others organized, sections buried deep, way at the back in the darkest corners are secrets sealed tight for years.  It is far time that I clean it out. 

My blog is perhaps all over the map, but that is who I like to be - the more you know and share the more you grow and care.


The Keyhole to My Mind's Closet

The Keyhole to My Mind's Closet
Blogging = cleaning = healing.