tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833455633954506196.post2608179771746371001..comments2020-02-16T09:34:29.314-05:00Comments on My Mind's Closet: Abandonment - I Them, Them meUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833455633954506196.post-90583075145735025442012-11-22T00:26:17.535-05:002012-11-22T00:26:17.535-05:00Powerful and tragic.
Often we that live with pa...Powerful and tragic. <br /><br />Often we that live with pain, (Be it physical mental, or emotional) find those we thought would stand with us through anything slowly falling away from our lives one by one, until it seems we always find ourselves alone.<br /><br />You nailed this one on the head, Tyla!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833455633954506196.post-49898543144949921162012-11-12T17:20:41.768-05:002012-11-12T17:20:41.768-05:00So glad you commented there too Debra. Wise words ...So glad you commented there too Debra. Wise words from this lady Tyla. Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833455633954506196.post-65140279974802820612012-11-12T16:57:27.947-05:002012-11-12T16:57:27.947-05:00I have to agree with what Cruiseroo said, Tyla.
...I have to agree with what Cruiseroo said, Tyla. <br /><br />I too went through that emotional, mental pulling-back...and it's rather a slap-in-the-face when your kids pull away or tell you that you have changed. I know I have changed, and am not that happy-go-lucky woman that I was in my 30s and 40s...but I also know too that my kids have changed. Adults do that as they go through their own lives.<br /><br />You have to work at it, a day at a time...but things can get better. My life did, but not without some stumbles and a nervous breakdown. Now--although I am too still healing, things are so much better, and the old mom is emerging...but at the same time, I'm new and improved!<br /><br />Hugs!Deb Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03088053403304682239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833455633954506196.post-31966233634106321622012-11-12T16:01:11.597-05:002012-11-12T16:01:11.597-05:00Tyla, this is so sad I'm at a loss for words. ...Tyla, this is so sad I'm at a loss for words. Your pain is so obvious. But you have also built such a wall around you that it's almost impenetrable. The sad part for me now is seeing you admit that you are now doing the same thing to your son. But at least you recognize it. Bottom line for each of us is always the same, regardless of what has happened: only we can change what isn't working for us. There's no magic fix. What is good is that you have made such progress from your early days to where you are now. If you can do that, you can go further. But you need to stop the negative thinking. And yes, you CAN stop that!Vigabohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07759933133939472793noreply@blogger.com